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Monday Mailbox (on Tuesday...)
Who will you invite?
A few weeks ago I sent you an encouragement to invite people along to our Easter Services.
Today I want to encourage you to take the step you’ve been praying about.
As I do this, I’m mindful that asking someone to a church service is not the easiest thing to do. I am no expert: but I thought it would be helpful to share the following few points with you. Maybe you have a few other suggestions – I’d be glad to hear about what works in your experience!
Anyway, here are a few things to keep in mind:
- People really are interested in what is valuable to you. When you talk positively and confidently about your spiritual life it may have more of an impact than you think! Estimates vary, but most will agree that when asked by a friend, people often are inclined to accept an invitation to a service or a church event.
- We live in an age where people are more and more open to spiritual things. Today’s people are more inclined to discuss spiritual matters than previous generations – give it a try
- Ask people whether they have ever had anything like a spiritual experience. Once again, you’ll probably be surprised how open people are. Once they have shared their experiences, you can share yours.
- Talk about the Easter weekend. Ask what their plans are, and share your own. Add something like “How about you come along with us, and we have some lunch afterwards?”
- Stay upbeat and positive about your church community. Talk about how it’s made up of everyday people who are easy to relate to. Talk about how teaching is relevant, music is great, and it’s a place where people matter. You might even mention how being part of your community helps you manage some of the tougher bits of life – that’s sure to capture some interest.
- Remember: People really are interested in what you find interesting and helpful – they won’t often expect you to talk so positively about your church family. What a pleasant surprise it will be!
- Relax. You don’t have to know all the answers to every question. If tough questions come up, let them know you’ll try and find an answer. People appreciate it when Christians admit they don’t know some of the answers. The most important thing you need to know is what difference following Jesus makes in your life.
- Most of all: just keep praying that God will use your words, overcome your weaknesses, and give you peace about what you will say. It’s God who changes hearts, opens minds, and who will speak to the inner realities of the people you are praying for. Keep asking him to use you. And keep taking him on His word!
Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect… (1 Peter 3:15)
Have a great week, church!
PS. Don't forget: I'd be glad to hear how you get on You can send your response to dave@redlandscrc.org.au
